Windows Updates issues

Hi, I understand your frustration with the update issues on your laptop. 
Based on what you have described, it seems like driver conflicts or the Insider build are causing most of the problems.

First, check that your system has enough free space (at least 20 to 40 GB) 
and that Secure Boot and TPM 2.0 are enabled.

Next, update or roll back drivers using the Device Manager app. 
You can also run the Windows Update troubleshooter (Settings > System > Troubleshoot > Other troubleshooters) 
and try a clean boot by disabling all non-Microsoft services and startup programs.

If everything fails, consider doing a clean reinstall of Windows. 
You might also want to leave the Insider Preview program if you want a more stable version of Windows.

These steps usually resolve most update problems. Happy to help!