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Purana
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Oct 08, 2022

Is part of getting married and adjusting to a new family.

Love is typically at the core of every successful relationship or sex. It does not matter whether we are friends or relatives, what matters is that we love the people around us. Throughout our lives, we have been taught that "Love gives meaning to life". This is how the tale of change unfolds as life moves on with its twists and turns. There are usually limited responsibilities and heartbreak when you fall in love before marriage. In contrast, marriage will require you to make numerous decisions for love to naturally progress. It does not mean that love before marriage does not come with responsibilities or affection, it simply means that walking away from it is easier. Perspectives differ in several situations. Arguments: Before marriage, you have a different perspective on conflict when you are in love with someone. Often, couples who find themselves in this situation quit without trying. Although marriages are also subject to break-ups, moving away can be quite challenging in this case. Responsibilities: The responsibilities of couples before marriage are few, but not many. There are times when decisions are unilateral, and no major planning is in the works. Couples in marriage, however, must share responsibilities in every aspect of their lives, from finances to planning to raise a family. In the latter case, love must be strong enough to withstand disputes and disagreements because, at the end of the day, you must see eye to eye. Bonding with family: Once a couple enters into the bond of marriage, two families become one, and the couple has to rebuild the web of relationships from scratch. Marriage prevents this kind of bonding. Getting to know each other through thick and thin is part of getting married and adjusting to a new family. The future certainty: Regardless of the kind of love you have, the future is uncertain. Before marriage, planning the future together was certain, but after marriage, it wasn't. It is common for married couples to discuss future events such as raising children or making investments. The no-glamour scenario: Many people won't admit it, but love before marriage is way too glamorous. It's a routine to talk all day, all week, and to send sweet nothings via text message. In the latter case, love needs to be strong enough to withstand disagreements and disputes, because, ultimately, you must agree. Bonding with family: When a couple gets married, two families become one, and the couple has to rebuild their web of relationships from scratch. Having a spouse prevents this kind of bonding. The process of getting married and adjusting to a new family involves getting to know each other through thick and thin. The future certainty: The future is uncertain no matter what kind of love you have. Before marriage, planning the future together was certain, but after marriage, it wasn't. Married couples often discuss future events, such as raising children or investing. The no-glamour scenario: Most people won't admit it, but love before marriage is way too glamorous. Sweet nothings in text messages and all-day dating are routines.

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