macbook with external monitor wont wake if sleeps with remote desktop session in focus

System info:

Macbook Air M2 w/512gb ssd and 10 core gpu

macOS ventura 13.0.1

external monitor: LG 40WP95C Ultrawide

Microsoft Remote Desktop v 10.7.10

Issue:

It seems that when my mac is connected to my external monitor via Thunderbolt and I have a Remote desktop session open, then when I leave my mac and the computer sleeps, there's nothing I can do to wake it back up on the external monitor.  I have to open the macbook, quit remote desktop, disconnect the thunderbolt cable and reconnect it to get the monitor to show anything.  If I don't have a session open and my computer sleeps, waking it up works just fine with normal methods (moving mouse, hitting a key).