Unfortunately i didnt write down the error but it had something to do with mapiexeption or something like that. Maybe this "
mapiexceptionnetworkerror unable to make connection to the server"
We simply just tried restarting the server were the databases indicated failed status. And after reboot the started syncing by themself. So i guess this issue was on both servers. But we hadnt figured it out until we read about all this here.
Today. I had to restart both DAG members again because of the issue but this time i could transfer the databases by the maintenance mode procedure. No error. But this time i noticed it in "time". Its seems that the longer you wait after the 22 hours the worse the symptomps get.