droberts83 It is unclear to my how you ended here but - to be honest, after seeing what you have tried, I feel like the easiest way to go about resolving this (seeing that this is a management only server, right?) is to simply nuke the machine / reformat / reinstall the OS and run a /recoverserver setup.
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/exchange/high-availability/disaster-recovery/recover-exchange-servers?view=exchserver-2019
Don't uninstall anything, just literally reformat it, get the OS installed (same name), update it (Windows), install Exchange prerequisites and do a recover server setup using the last CU that you have installed now. Once that is done, you can roll forward with SUs.