Did anybody bother to search on Apple's site for solutions? Or do a Google search for solutions?
I found all the info I needed & then some out on that thing called the Internet.
Also, if you'd read the iPhone Enterprise documentation located here (http://support.apple.com/manuals/en_US/Enterprise_Deployment_Guide.pdf) you would have found the resolution to your password & servername "format" issues.
Everything you could need is in that document for basic setup!!
Also, for the folks with 5000+ entries in their Contacts folder having issues, I have 1 question... WHY??
That's what the GAL is for!! Without doing more research I'd imagine that Apple put a limit on the total amount of "Contacts" that can be synced with the device due to space constraints, so you'll need to trim that down...
Just a thought.